destroy self destruction

Coaching for gamers who want to make life a good game

tired of escaping
sad life?

Gaming, substances, food, etc are all ways we use to numb ourselves and avoid facing the challenges we’re experiencing. When escaping becomes a habit, we’re not growing in the way that will benefit us in the long run.So often we get stuck in the cycle of escape, and it’s difficult to quit. When we do stop, we spend all of our willpower resisting until we get defeated by cravings, and it repeats again.

quit. resist. defeat. repeat.

Being stuck in this cycle doesn’t mean you’re a failure. There is a better way to finally getting out of it for good, without having to stop doing the things you enjoy.

break the cycle

Create healthy relationships

I believe that everything is a relationship. When you focus on improving your relationships in your life, like with substances, gaming, other people, and yourself, everything starts to change.Stop depleting your willpower trying to resist patterns of behavior that aren’t helping you get the life you want. Instead, focus on changing your relationship with those things and see how that shifts your trajectory in life.

I'm Michael Fernandez

I understand the struggles you're facing because I've been there!With a past of using gaming and drugs as an escape, and overcoming addiction, I know how to guide you towards healthier relationships and a better life.My mission is to help gamers like you disrupt self-destructive behaviors and make life a good game.

How I work

We meet in game!
Sessions with me will take place on Discord having fun together while we talk.Get actionable advice.
You’ll have someone who can help you figure out what to do to change.Talk to a gamer just like you.
I’m just a normal guy who relates to what you’re going through.Have some compassionate accountability.
I’ll keep you focused on what you’ve set out to do, so that you follow through.

Get started

  1. Connect with me by filling out the form below to get started.

  2. We’ll meet on Discord first, and then in game.

  3. We’ll get clear on what you want by identifying your goals and challenges.

  4. I’ll support you and hold you accountable with consistent guidance to ensure you stay on track.

ready to revolutionize your relationships?

Fill out this form to take the first step to a better game of life!

who i've helped

Michael really helped me understand the root of my anxiety and unresolved issues. He helped me identify my triggers and learn how to positively work through them. I just want to say how thankful I am. I've been able to look at things with a new perspective now that I know what sets me off. I've noticed so much growth after one session. He has a way of making you feel heard and validated. He provides a safe space to talk about anything that is going on in your life that you need to get off your chest. Even if you think you're just venting. He figures a way to provide healthy feedback to bring positivity into your life.
-Divina C.

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